FAQ

Questions to Consider When Arranging a Funeral

When arranging a funeral, there are a number of decisions to be made. Many families are doing this for the first time and may be unsure what is involved.

Below are some of the most common questions that arise. Byrne’s Funeral Directors are available to guide you through each step and provide support throughout the arrangements.

 

Who is responsible for making funeral arrangements?

The person with legal authority to make funeral arrangements is the Executor, who is named in the will to administer the estate.

In practice, this responsibility is often shared with or carried out by a next of kin or close family member.

The person who signs the funeral arrangements will be responsible for the costs and will be the main point of contact for decisions relating to the funeral, including arrangements with the cemetery or crematorium.

 

Do we choose burial or cremation?

This is usually one of the first decisions to be made. It may be guided by the wishes of the person who has died, or by family preference.

If you are unsure, we can explain the options available and help you decide what feels right.

 

What type of funeral service can we have?

Many families choose a traditional church funeral, which may involve a removal to the church the evening before, followed by the funeral Mass and burial the next day, or a removal and funeral on the same day.

Others may prefer a different type of service. The funeral can include music, readings, prayers or personal elements that reflect the life of the person who has died.

We will talk through the options with you and help you plan the service.

 

Are non-religious funeral services available?

Yes. If the person who has died was not religious, there are alternatives such as a humanist or civil service.

We can explain the options available and help you arrange a service that reflects your wishes.

 

Where will the funeral service take place?

The funeral service may take place in a church, crematorium, or another suitable location. Some families may also choose to include a gathering at the funeral home.

We will liaise with the relevant clergy or celebrant and organise the arrangements on your behalf.

 

Can we include personal elements in the service?

Families often choose to include music, readings or prayers that reflect the life of the person who has died.

We can guide you on what is possible and help you organise these elements as part of the service.

 

How is the funeral notice arranged?

We will assist you in preparing the funeral notice and ensure that all details are correct before it is published.

This includes names, dates, times, locations and any additional information the family wishes to include.

 

What happens at the funeral home?

Families may choose to have the deceased repose at the funeral home, where relatives, friends and neighbours can call to pay their respects.

The funeral home in Crablane, Coolkenno provides a private and comfortable setting for this.

 

Do we need to provide clothing?

Families are usually asked to provide clothing for the deceased. If you are unsure what is required, we can guide you.

 

Is embalming required?

Embalming is not always required, but we recommend it in all cases. It helps to ensure that the deceased is presented in a peaceful and dignified manner and allows families time to spend with their loved one.

We will explain what is involved and answer any questions you may have so that you can make an informed decision.

 

What type of service can take place before cremation?

As with burial, you can choose to have a religious or non-religious service before cremation. Some families choose to hold a service in a church, while others prefer a service at the crematorium or another location.

 

What happens at the crematorium?

At the crematorium, family and mourners gather at an arranged time for the service.

The coffin will be in place, and the service may include music, readings, prayers or a eulogy. Each crematorium operates within a set timeframe for services.

At the end of the service, the coffin is usually screened from view. If you would prefer it to remain visible until the end, this can be arranged in advance.

 

How are the arrangements coordinated?

We take care of coordinating all aspects of the funeral, including liaising with clergy, cemeteries, crematoria and other parties involved.

This helps ensure that everything runs smoothly on the day.

 

What support is available to families?

We are available to support you throughout the process, from the first call through to the funeral itself.

If you have any questions at any stage, we are here to help.